At different stages in Life, we crave for different things. We endeavour to achieve. At times, we even fail. But the question here lies is :
Do we always see this failure as another step of success ?
Do we take it in a positive way?
Do we fear to attempt again ?
Perhaps answer to this might vary.
Some dig in to find the root cause and thereby improve to achieve it.
While some rather than finding the cause of failure turn greedy. Here is when you lose your state of mind. Greed of something often leads to impatience.Impatience can rather be called as a fear. It may be a fear of failure or fear of losing something/someone. Fear sometimes provokes a person and at times the person even steps back. Here is where you need to work.
Fear, Impatience, Frustration, Greed all such feelings might swirl in your mind.Sometimes even small conversations with a person might agitate you.Even if the conversation ends in real still in mind you start pondering about it.As rightly said ‘A moment of patience in a moment of anger saves a thousand moments of Regret.’
To accept what’s happening requires huge efforts. It’s not always that you might not acquire what you want. But when such unfavourable situation occurs, you just have to be patient enough to overcome it. For everything that happens, happens for a reason. It is going to be fruitful one day if you learn to lacerate it.
You always have two ways to deal with it : Either to WAIT or to MOVE on. If you are confident enough that waiting for it won’t ever lead to impatience then you should always go with it. Sometimes waiting for desire leads to pain. And pain often leads to eradication.When a person is hurt, he either takes revenge or hurts himself. This does not mean that you should not attempt to achieve your desire. But you should always set a limit for till when you are going to strive for it.When the limit is crossed, wiser step would be is to MOVE on.
You can’t hold anything forcefully in your fist. If it is yours than somewhere you might get it back but if not then there’s always something better holding for you. You just have to give your best efforts and be ready to accept whatever comes on way.
You don’t drown by falling in water.You drown by staying there.
Be strong enough to Let Go and Patient enough to wait for what you deserve.